Jaqueline Becker

April 4, 2024

I am very happy to share that I have won my battles with Pegasus Publishers and thus I have my rights back for, Dying To Live: Love Stories.

I’m sorry to say, that until I’m set with a publisher who is more aligned with my values and the values etched into this book, hold off with any purchases. I will be thrilled to inform you when the next iteration of this work is in the hands of a proper publisher for it.

For those of you who have been wonderfully supportive of this book, and to those for whom I know it has been spiritually so significant, your level of appreciation for the book will stay tucked into my heart and will help fuel the next version of it.


Jaqueline H. Becker, Ph.D., MS, is a Licensed Psychologist in private practice, a corporate consultant, and was formally a special education teacher. As well, Dr. Becker has been an assistant director and clinician for a division of a private school that specialized in serving emotionally, socially, spiritually, and academically challenged students. As a guest on professional panels, TV, radio, and quoted in print, Dr. B. is widely cited as an expert on bullying, children, parenting, and interpersonal relationships. Her Keynote presentations and Workshops are both powerful and fun.

Memoir Turns Demons Into Hope in Breathtaking Collection of “Love Stories”

Dying to Live: Love Stories Reviews

Bernard E. Clair, Esq. (Cohen Clair Lans Greifer & Simpson LLP)

It’s much more than a coming-of-age tale.  Dr. Becker pulls the curtain off of relationships that she had (and continues to have) with her family, friends, lovers, and her patients – all without fear.  I loved this book and can’t wait to tell everyone who I know about it.  And of course, I’m making plans right this instant to pass it along to my friends and family.  Great; just great! 

Bernard E. Clair, Esq.


Lee Cohen, Esq. (Retired; highly regarded attorney, 45+ yrs of experience.)

“So I am both compelled and happy to tell you that I believe the book is WONDERFUL, COURAGEOUS AND A LATTER DAY JOBIAN GOSPEL! Did you set out to write it as a modern book of Jewish mysticism , with a splash of early Christian Gnosticism (“ hidden truth”) and a dash of Transcendentalism? Because that’s what it shouts to me, so far. But above it all, it’s a very very “Jewish” book, in the best and most loving sense of the word.

I must also say that I call your book “ courageous” , because I have never seen anyone, with such relentless honesty and sheer bravery, strip themselves so emotionally and psychologically bare , as you have in this book, to demonstrate your thesis.”

Lee Cohen, Esq.


Dietra Gamar, LCSW, NYC

“The Evangelist Luke tells us” To whom much is given…much is required” and this applies so well to the work that Dr. Becker has done over many years. This book draws from her deep well of wisdom to teach all of us the many ways in which love connects us to our authentic selves. Her words strike deep chords of emotions and illuminate our inner light with a greater understanding and compassion.  I highly recommend this book. a beautiful contribution to a more conscious and intentional life.”

Dietra Gamar


Scott J. Becker, MS, CEO

“Dying to Live: Love Stories” by Dr. Jaqueline Becker is a captivating and thought-provoking exploration of the depths of human connection. Dr. Becker has a keen understanding of the human experience and “Dying to Live…” invites readers on an unforgettable journey that explores the power of love to transcend many circumstances.

Prepare to be moved, challenged, and ultimately inspired by her masterful storytelling in this extraordinary tale of love, loss, and the enduring human spirit.

I am proud to be a part of her remarkable journey.

Scott J. Becker


Litany Burns, Medium/Clairvoyant, Author

“A deeply wonderful journey into the life and heart and spirit of a timeless woman.”

Litany Burns

Medium/Clairvoyant, Author

Janet Roen, M.D. NYC

“These wide-ranging and intensely personal reflections on loves, betrayals and society at large incorporate the author’s psychological insights and remarkable optimism about the human condition.”

Janet Roen


John Loeffler, Music Genius

“I want to tell you how much I am moved by this.”

John Loeffler

Music Genius

Maria Danziger, MS, Educator

“It was a joy to read Jackie’s book, “Dying to Live: Love Stories. Her stories, coupled with her insights, intuition,  love of others and of herself, bring hope and light to the darkness we all, at some point, have experienced. An excellent read….Maria Danziger, A friend honored to share in her journey.”

Maria Danziger

MS, Educator

Elke Geising, MS, CEO, Founder

“It is beautiful reading; poetic language, interspersed with mystical analogies, music, lyrics from captivating songs, and refreshing everyday language. It is a pleasure to relate so easily to the humanness, strength, and vulnerability of the author, unencumbered by professional lingo or popular wellness jargons. She makes no promises of fast-tracking spirituality or lists expert models for bypassing hard work on oneself.

The author shines a caring light into depths of the unconscious – and she becomes a safe and experienced companion for seekers of healing to venture there and encounter what they might otherwise be afraid to face on their own.

This book is a must-read for all those who struggle with relational wounds and feel that love is missing in their lives. Her enthusiasm in sharing joy, finding freedom from bondage is so contagious that it pulls the seeker past barriers of their own fear and shame into hope and possibilities.”

Elke Geising, MS, CEO

Founder, NALA-Partners for Entrepreneurship in South Africa and Germany Intercultural dialogue consultant, Diversity

Steer it, life’s happening anyway ®

Intuitive Psychotherapy

Yes, dreams do come true; they tell you exactly what you need to know in order to feel better, navigate misfortunes, and help you find and hold steady your powerful center. Intuitive Therapy is a fabulous guide for assisting you in your explorations of self and coaxing joy into your living.

Therapeutic Spiritual Development

In our work together you get to learn the magic inherent in your connectedness with Spirit. With you, I get to support your soul as it fights for its freedoms. Your flights of independence are joyous for me since I get to re-experience the awesome reality of Spirit as it manifests in everyday life.

New York therapist
Talks, Seminars, and More

Break the cycle of bullying and become a twenty-first-century avatar of empathic, compassionate, and fearlessness as you guide your children’s lives.

Dying To Live? Great! I know the forest, I have the tools for path making.
Whatever your challenge, I’ll see you through it.
I do not see troubles as sicknesses; I see them as opportunities to become more.
—Dr. J. H. Becker

More Time Ins, Not More Time Out Book

“I know, without reservation, that most parents love their children very much, and only want to do ‘what is right for them.’ They do not consciously intend to bully or otherwise damage their children. But sometimes they do. The good news is–we can change that!” –Dr. J. H. Becker

This book makes the reader do just as its title suggests–Create More Time Ins than Time OutsHere’s How:

  • Learn The Four C’s to: Stay Connected, Stay Calm, Stay Compassionate, and exhibit Calibrated intentions.
  • Learn this new, easy Eight-Step Parenting Method that teaches parents how to not mistakenly bully their children
  • Learn how to take control of negative interactions with your children and turn them into positive ones
  • Learn the value and benefits of a “TIME IN”–What it is, When to use it, Where to use it, and How to use it

Jaqueline H. Becker, Ph.D. leads you by the hand, heart and mind to help you differentiate between your conscious and unconscious intentions so that you can develop increased control of your actions and reactions with yourself, your children, and others..

For general information about Dr. Becker’s availability for Counseling or Presentations, please send email to Dr. Becker at drb@drjhbecker.com